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Autoerotic masochist and dom male. Guess that makes me a switch player. Like needles, wax, ties that bind. CBT in general. Give and take

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildHeavyset
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairFull beard
Best featureButt
Body ArtSecret piercings
Health ConditionDeaf / hard of hearing
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes

Situation

Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNo
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyResearch / Science / Engineering
Employment StatusRetired

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchNot looking for a perfect match. Looking for excitement, fun and sex.
Our first dateGo slow. I spook easily.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M)
My role isSadomasochist
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, CBT (cock & ball torture), Cupping, Electro torture, Genital torture, Hot wax, Needle play, Piercing, Power exchange, Spanking, Suspension, Voyeurism, Whipping
My most pleasurable encounter wasA hot wax scene at Power Exchange in San Francisco about 10 years ago.

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Munches

Sexual Interests

Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isNot my thing
Sex toys:Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Office supplies, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Scat. Just not into that. Otherwise, my rule is if it cannot be done at least 3 times it is off limits. Example: I/You have only two balls. Cannot cut them off because it cannot be done three times. Bit drastic example, but you get the idea.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyCBT.
Another male
Fantasy locationAt a park, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, On the beach

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Experimentation
Role:I'm open to experimenting
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Other
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Light Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Other