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Yearning to broaden my horizons

Inquisitive about all things CBT and learning - and expanding! - my limits with the right Dom.

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Sex Preferences

Use condomsYes, Condoms only
I preferBottom
I'm aSilver Daddy
DemeanorAverage
OutOnly close friends know
HIV StatusNegative

CBT Preferences

I prefer:Soft and light, Depends on my partner
Things I enjoy:Squeezing, Weights/Parachutes, Stretching, Stroking
Toys I like to use:Ball crusher, Ball stretcher, Parachute, Humbler
Orgasm during play:Always

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height175 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
AvailabilityYour Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Doctorate
SpecialtyEducation / Academic
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitlePrefer not to say

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Boldness, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchI haven't found my perfect match yet.
Our first dateMeeting in a neutral location to discuss service, Your requirements, hard limits, etc.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA master
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBreast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Spanking, Suspension
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasI'll tell you about it when we know one another a little better.

Fetishes

FetishesOther

Sexual Activities

Night life:Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Dildos/Vibrators, Fruits/veggies
Size matterYes, definitely
"Off Limits":Breath play, blood, scat, needles, mummification; probably soundings, though with the right partner, I believe I could be up for nearly anything . . .

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI am going to hold back some, though there are so many things I am curious about and want to try/experience with the right Dom:
water sports is definitely part of my sexual fantasies, and I am very interested in learning more about receiving fisting. I yearn to find a Dom who causes me to want to deeply submit.
Fantasy locationTrain, Moving car, At a park, Dark alley, Bleachers of a stadium, Kitchen, Hotel/motel, Hot tub, Movie theatre, My office, Public bathroom
Fantasy sex partner:This is difficult for me to articulate. Someone who has come to know me well enough to know what I truly need and want, and who will give it to me because it pleases Him to do so. I am sorry that I can't put it into coherent words.

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
I like to wear:Haven't had much experience with this so far, for that reason, I think there needs to be a safe word, while at the same time I hope that it does not need to be used.
I think hand and maybe later paddles would be best.
I'd like to try different positions and other things, some chosen by the Dom.
Include sex and orgasm:Always
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over the masters lap, Tied to doorway
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Other
Pain level:Stinging

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Other
Ideal session:Don't yet have an ideal session in mind.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:It would definitely include water sports.